Challenge and quell all negativity and doubt, that when you are lost tell yourself you know where you are, that when you feel sad and unloved believe it all will pass, that you are a great person capable of doing great things and persist, because you became the 'real' you right now.
'When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change'
Did Confucius say... 'the cookie dropped in the milk is more fun than wishing you'd had more fun'? ah, maybe, not... it was likely someone not quite as wise as he.
don't listen to the geniuses who live outside your body. listen to what your gut keeps trying to tell you... 'listen to me'. you'll never go wrong unless a vital lesson needs to be learned.
Who are we? Consciousness with a personality disorder.